The Violence of One-Size-Fits-All: Why We Must Stop Homogenizing Each Other

We are always trying to homogenize each other, and it doesn't work.

We end up leaving each other ill, sick, angry, frustrated and we don't even know it's what we're doing. This unconscious violence permeates everything: our educational systems, our business methodologies, our wellness practices, even our spiritual communities. We take what worked for us and assume it must work for everyone.

This what I believe is a crisis of personal mythology—the unconscious belief that our way of moving through life, our way of pursuing success, our way of finding wholeness or safety is the right way for everyone. We've built entire industries around teaching our right way to other people, instead of creating strong systems and frameworks for helping people locate their own essence, their own offerings, their own way of moving forward.

The Tyranny of Universal Solutions

Walk into any business coaching program and you'll hear the same refrains: "Here's the exact funnel that got me to seven figures." "This morning routine changed my life—it will change yours too." "Everyone needs to show up on social media this way."

But what if you're not wired for that funnel? What if that morning routine feels like violence to your nervous system? What if that way of showing up on social media makes you feel like you're wearing someone else's skin?

We've mistaken replication for education. We've confused their breakthrough with your blueprint.

The result? Millions of people trying to force themselves into methodologies that weren't designed for their unique creative operating system. Entrepreneurs burning out because they're trying to build businesses using strategies that contradict their natural rhythms. Creatives abandoning their gifts because the "proven paths" don't accommodate their way of being.

This isn't just ineffective, it's a form of spiritual violence.

The Medicine of Individual Design

What I love about astrology is that it teaches us this fundamental truth: everyone has a unique roadmap. Everyone has their own unique way of moving forward with life, with their vision, with their potential, and with their creative process.

Your chart doesn't tell you to be like someone else—it reveals the sacred design that is uniquely yours. It shows you how the creative lifeforce naturally moves through your system, what kinds of environments you thrive in, how you're meant to contribute to the larger weave of existence.

This is ancient wisdom that our homogenizing culture has forgotten: there is no one right way to be human.

There is no one right way to build a business. There is no one right way to process trauma. There is no one right way to approach spirituality. There is no one right way to create change in the world.

There are as many right ways as there are people walking this earth.

The Cost of Conformity

When we try to squeeze our essence into someone else's success template, we don't just fail, we fracture. We develop what Jungian psychology calls archetypal dysphoria: a deep dissonance between who we actually are and who we think we need to be to succeed.

The naturally contemplative introvert tries to become the extroverted networker and wonders why they're exhausted.

The intuitive, process-oriented creator tries to follow the linear, goal-oriented framework and wonders why their work feels lifeless.

The community-builder tries to become the individual thought leader and wonders why they feel so alone.

We tell ourselves we're "doing it wrong" when really, we're doing someone else's thing instead of discovering our own.

Beyond One-Size-Fits-All

What if, instead of teaching people the one right way to do something, we helped them discover their way of doing it?

What if, instead of offering universal solutions, we created frameworks flexible enough to honor the full spectrum of human design?

What if we stopped asking "What's the best way to do this?" and started asking "What's your way of doing this?"

This requires a fundamental shift in how we approach teaching, coaching, and guidance. It means moving from prescription to discovery. From replication to revelation. From conformity to creativity.

It means recognizing that true mastery isn't about perfecting someone else's method—it's about discovering and honoring your own.

The Sacred Work of Self-Location

Your work, your gifts, your creative process—they're not broken if they don't match the template. They're not inferior if they require different conditions to flourish. They're not less valuable if they serve a different function in the larger ecosystem.

Your work is to locate yourself. To understand your own creative operating system. To discover what conditions allow your gifts to flourish. To find your unique way of contributing to the healing and regeneration of our world.

And this is essential. The earth doesn't need another copy of someone else's medicine. She needs your medicine, expressed through your unique design, in your own perfect timing.

Your Sacred Blueprint

This is why I've become so passionate about business astrology—it's the antidote to one-size-fits-all entrepreneurship.

Your natal chart doesn't lie. It doesn't tell you to be like that successful coach on Instagram. It reveals your actual design: how you naturally process information, what kinds of work environments allow you to thrive, how you're meant to serve others, what your unique path to success looks like.

When someone with a Capricorn Midheaven tries to build their business like someone with a Gemini Midheaven, they'll exhaust themselves. When someone with a Pisces Mars tries to market like someone with an Aries Mars, they'll feel inauthentic. When someone tries to ignore their Saturn placement and skip the foundational work it requires, they'll hit the same walls over and over.

Your chart shows you your way of doing business—not the way that worked for someone else.

The Revolution of Uniqueness

Imagine a world where every entrepreneur understood their actual design instead of trying to replicate someone else's strategy.

Imagine if we stopped asking "What's the proven path to six figures?" and started asking "What does success look like through my unique astrological blueprint?"

Imagine if we honored that the person with a Cancer Midheaven might build wealth through nurturing community, while the person with an Aquarius Midheaven might build it through innovative systems—and both paths are equally valid.

This isn't just a nicer way to do business—it's more effective. When people work with their astrological design instead of against it, they create better work, they serve more powerfully, they build more sustainable success.

The revolution isn't in finding the one right way to build a business. It's in remembering that there are as many right ways as there are unique birth charts.

Your Blueprint for Business

Your chart is not just a spiritual curiosity. It's a practical guide for how you're designed to create, serve, and succeed in this world.

If you're tired of trying to force yourself into other people's business models, if you're ready to understand your actual path to success, if you want to work with your cosmic design instead of against it—let's explore what your chart has to say.

Your way of doing business is written in the stars. It's time to remember what that is.

Ready to discover your unique path to success? Book a Business Astrology Reading to uncover your cosmic blueprint for entrepreneurship.